Firstly a little apology that this post has been a while in the making, a newborn really does make getting things done tricky at times!
Something that is particularly hard for me – I think I have mentioned it before in previous posts – is staying in control of my OCD when life events don’t allow you to control everything. I can only speak of my personal experience but for me knowing what is coming next – although potentially a little boring at times – allows me to stay calm.
I think we all know life isn’t always predictable and so how can we prepare for the times when it throws us a curve ball?
Recently I’ve seen the return of my UC (Ulcerative colitis) which is an autoimmune disease. Very conveniently it goes away during pregnancy but I’m now 8 weeks post pregnancy and it’s starting to return. I’m feeling tired already and this reoccurrence – although not completely unexpected – has taken it’s toll on my positive outlook and energy levels.
Trying to stay positive and calm when you’re feeling under the weather is extra tough as it can seem unfair and motivation to do anything can be low. When it’s just a cold there is an end in sight but with a long term condition it can be hard to see light at the end of the tunnel. However it is important to try, particularly when you have people relying on you.
The last couple of weeks I’ve had to have some little talks with myself and reflect back on some of my previous blog posts to remember all the things I need to do to stay in control of my OCD.
Normally one of the first things I like to do when I’m feeling low is to get out of the house – four walls are not your friend – however this isn’t always possible when you’re feeling poorly. If it’s not possible to get out then do what you can to improve your mental outlook. If you can:
- Open a window to let in some fresh air
- Turn on the lights, potentially invest in a SAD lamp which helps with seasonal affective disorder – I am particularly sensitive to light.
- Take a multi vitamin to give yourself a boost
- Make sure you’re eating well and drinking enough water
- Get your head phones in and listen to some of your favourite tunes
- Call a friend or family member and have a chat or even better get them to come over
- Try to avoid alcohol, smoking and caffeine
- Make sure you’re getting enough sleep but not staying in bed all day
- Try to have a shower and get dressed
- Look at online blogs where people are in similar positions to yourself, this can make you feel a lot less alone.
- If you can do some exercise
- Write a thankful list of 5 things to be grateful for. This can help to refocus your mind onto positives rather than negatives.
- Use mindfulness and meditation.
There are so many things you can do to keep yourself on the right path but at the core of it all you have to want it, even in the toughest of times never loose your focus.
and of course, as always,
Stay Strong xxx